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What does it mean to decenter men—and how do I do it?
What does it mean to decenter men—and how do I do it?
Melissa FabelloApril 4, 2025
Astrologically, it's time to reflect on your love life. What Qs should you ask?
Astrologically, it's time to reflect on your love life. What Qs should you ask?
Melissa FabelloMarch 21, 2025
Love isn't 'blind,' but can we learn from this Netflix show?
Love isn't 'blind,' but can we learn from this Netflix show?
Melissa FabelloMarch 6, 2025
Why is it so hard to make friends in adulthood?
Why is it so hard to make friends in adulthood?
Melissa FabelloFebruary 24, 2025
I'm depressed, but still wanna show up—how?
I'm depressed, but still wanna show up—how?
Melissa FabelloFebruary 11, 2025
My anxious attachment hurts my partner. How do I stop spiraling?
My anxious attachment hurts my partner. How do I stop spiraling?
Melissa FabelloDecember 27, 2024
I believe in accountability. But how do I do it?
I believe in accountability. But how do I do it?
Melissa FabelloDecember 15, 2024
I'm bisexual and polyamorous, but only want to date women. Is that okay?
I'm bisexual and polyamorous, but only want to date women. Is that okay?
Melissa FabelloNovember 30, 2024
I'm interested in the 4B movement. But wait—is it TERF-y?
I'm interested in the 4B movement. But wait—is it TERF-y?
Melissa FabelloNovember 19, 2024
Want to do more to defeat Trump? Here's how.
Want to do more to defeat Trump? Here's how.
Melissa FabelloNovember 7, 2024
 

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Book #15 of 2025: “This Book Will Bury Me” by Ashley Winstead Listen. I’ve read several of her books. And usually, my feeling about them is that they almost hit the mark, but not quite. But this one? This one is fantastic. I&rsquo
The other day, on Threads, I saw a post that asked, “A friend cancels on your plans last minute – for the third time. Do you call them out or slowly distance yourself?” To which, I responded, “Have you ever tried… direc
One topic that I often see folks equally excited about and terrified by is the idea of decentering men. In theory, it’s a f*ck yes. 💪🏼 But when folks start to think through what it might look like in a practical way, they get freaked out. 🙀
I get it: There’s something really sexy about feeling a ✨spark✨ with someone. Instant chemistry is intoxicating. And it isn’t necessarily a bad thing. But when we start to depend on it in dating, to the point that we won’t go on a
🩷 Over the past six week, a group of badass babes and I met every Sunday morning to discuss our charms and challenges with non-monogamy, truly covering the good, the bad, and the ugly. And this came as perfect timing for me, as I’m in a place
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